My son, Brandon, was a 21-year- old man when he suffered a severe traumatic brain injury from a motor vehicle crash in 2001. He was a young, strong, healthy man with a bright future. In one split second his life dramatically changed. He had been drinking and chose to get behind the wheel, which resulted in a life-changing event. The effects of that choice not only took the life of his best friend but changed his life forever. CHOICES MATTER!
Moving forward, Brandon is alive but with many limitations – not the life any parent dreams for their child. He is dependent on me and our family for all his basic needs – things we take for granted. He is wheelchair bound and needs 24-hour care. When someone experiences the unimaginable and somehow manages to get through it … something amazing can happen. Due to my unconditional love, I never gave up on my son. Inspired by the beloved Boston Marathon father-son wheelchair team, Dick and Rick Hoyt, I started pushing Brandon through marathons to raise awareness about the life-altering effects of drinking and driving and traumatic injuries. Brandon went from Offender to Inspirer. We turned a Tragedy into Triumph and Team Brandon was born. Team Brandon doesn’t judge and is about forgiveness. We share our message with love and honesty. When people ask me if Brandon served time in prison for manslaughter I tell them this: “Brandon was convicted of his crime and is serving a life-sentence trapped in his body and mind!”
We completed our first full marathon in January 2013 at the Arizona P.F. Chang’s Rock ‘n’ Roll Marathon. Who would have thought the short walks we started in 2012, pushing my 6 ft. 200 lb. son, would have resulted in completing 5 full marathons, countless half marathons & many other distance races, having run over 4,500 miles by January 2017? Team Brandon has achieved the Rock ‘n’ Roll’s Triple Crown, Encore, Cali Coast Heavy Medals & the Desert Double Down. To foster our message, Team Brandon raises funds that allow our foundation to continue spreading our VOW TO DRIVE SOBER message in schools, worksites and communities. The funds also allow us to purchase racing chairs for special needs families and provide an avenue for them to participate in ongoing racing events with Team Brandon. We continue to share our story with teens and their parents to discourage underage drinking but realistically promote the importance of using a designated driver and other safe alternative transportation. I always say “Your parents would much rather get a phone call from you, saying I am drunk, please pick me up” than having a police officer call saying & “Your son/daughter was killed/or killed someone in a drinking and driving accident.” UBER has partnered with Team Brandon nationwide by giving the promo code DRIVESOBER for a FREE RIDE up to $20 on all customers’ first ride. UBER donates a portion of each new rider’s trip back to The Next Step Foundation Team Brandon. Because Brandon was the Offender, Team Brandon has an unfortunate advantage to grab at the heartstrings of our audience as we encourage people to choose to drive sober. Our presentations are truly effective since Brandon and I present together. When we present our VOW TO DRIVE SOBER message, people can see the real-life tragedy right in front of their eyes. They’re able to conceptualize the heartbreak versus having a picture painted for them. A light bulb goes on quickly and sends the message … I have a choice. I don’t have to drink and drive. I can make a difference! This light bulb moment matters for you and your loved ones! Although we all have a choice to drive sober, unfortunately, we do not have control over those who do make a poor choice. When people see Brandon and our video, they are emotionally charged to reconsider decisions to drink and drive. To add value to our program, our primary partners are the local DUI Task Force officers who take time to engage the audience by performing field sobriety tests. We don’t feel that alcohol is the enemy for those over 21. Our goal is to remind them to PARTY SMART by planning ahead, leaving their keys at home, and using alternative transportation (such as Uber) each way.